BuddhaSasana Home Page BRAHMAVIHÀRA Venerable
Narada Mahathera "Rare is birth as a
human being. Man
is a mysterious being with inconceivable potentialities. Latent in him
are both saintly characteristics and criminal tendencies. They may rise
to the surface at unexpected moments in disconcerting strength. How they
originated we know not. We only know that they are dormant in man in
varying degree. Within the powerful mind in
this complex machinery of man are also found a storehouse of virtue and
a rubbish heap of evil. With the development of the respective
characteristics man may become either a blessing or a curse to humanity. Those who wish to be great,
noble and serviceable, who wish to sublimate themselves and, serve
humanity both by example and by precept, and who wish to avail
themselves of this golden opportunity as human beings, endeavour their
best to remove the latent vices and to cultivate the dormant virtues. To dig up precious gems
embedded in the earth men spend enormous sums of money and make
laborious efforts, and sometimes even sacrifice their lives. But to dig
up the valuable treasures latent in man, only persistent effort and
enduring patience are necessary. Even the poorest man or woman can
accomplish this task, for wealth is not an essential prerequisite to the
accumulation of transcendental treasures. It is strange that the
vices latent in man seem to be almost natural and spontaneous. It is
equally strange that every vice possesses its opposite sterling virtue,
which does not however appear to be so normal and automatic, though
still within the range of all. One powerful destructive
vice in man is anger (dosa). The sweet virtue that subdues this
evil force and sublimes man is loving-kindness (mettà).
Cruelty (himsà) is
another vice that is responsible for many horrors and atrocities
prevalent in the world. Compassion (karunà) is its antidote. Jealousy (issà) is
another vice that poisons one's system and leads to unhealthy rivalries
and dangerous competitions. The most effective remedy for this poisonous
drug is appreciative joy
(mudità).
There are two other
universal characteristics that upset the mental equipoise of man. They
are attachment to the pleasurable and aversion to the non-pleasurable.
These two opposite forces can be eliminated by developing equanimity (upekkhà).
These four sterling virtues
are collectively termed in Pàli "Brahmavihàra" which
may be rendered by Modes of Sublime Conduct, Sublime States, or Divine
Abodes. These virtues tend to
elevate man. They make one divine in this life itself. They can
transform man into a superman. If all try to cultivate them,
irrespective of creed, colour, race, or sex, the earth can be
transformed into a paradise where all can live in perfect peace and
harmony as ideal citizens of one world. The four sublime virtues
are also termed illimitables (appamannà). They are so called
because they find no barrier or limit and should be extended towards all
beings without exception. They embrace all living beings including
animals. Irrespective of religious
beliefs, one can cultivate these sweet virtues and be a blessing to
oneself and all others. 1. METTÀ The first Sublime State is Mettà
(Samskrit: Maitri). It means that which softens one's heart, or
the state of a true friend. It is defined as the sincere wish for the
welfare and genuine happiness of all living beings without exception. It
is also explained as the friendly disposition, for a genuine friend
sincerely wishes for the welfare of his friend. "Just as a mother
protects her only child even at the risk of her life, even so one should
cultivate boundless loving-kindness towards all living beings" is
the advice of the Buddha. It is not the passionate
love of the mother towards her child that is stressed here but her
sincere wish for the genuine welfare of her child. Mettà is neither carnal
love nor personal affection, for grief inevitably arises from both. Mettà is not mere
neighbourliness, for it makes no distinction between neighbours and
others. Mettà is not mere
universal brotherhood, for it embraces all living beings including
animals, our lesser brethren and sisters that need greater compassion as
they are helpless. Mettà is not political
brotherhood or racial brotherhood, or national brotherhood, or even
religious brotherhood. Political brotherhood is
confined only to those who share similar political views, such as the
partial brotherhood of Democrats, Socialists, Communists, and so forth. Racial brotherhood and
national brotherhood are restricted only to those of the same race and
nation. Some nationalists love their race so much that sometimes they
ruthlessly kill innocent men, women and children because they
unfortunately are not blessed with blond hair and blue eyes. The white
races have particular love for the white skin, the black for the black,
the yellow for the yellow, the brown for the brown, the pale for the
pale, the red for the red. Others of a different complexion are at times
viewed with suspicion and fear. Very often to assert their racial
superiority they resort to brutal warfare, killing millions by
mercilessly raining bombs from the sky above. The pathetic incidents of
the Second World War are striking examples which can never be forgotten
by mankind. Amongst some narrow-minded
peoples, within the wider circle of their ancient nations, there exist
minor circles of caste and class where the so-called brotherhood of the
powerful oppressors is so limited that the oppressed are not even
permitted to enjoy bare human rights merely because of the accidents of
birth or class. These oppressors are to be pitied because they are
confined to their water-tight compartments. Mettà is not religious
brotherhood either. Owing to the sad limitations of so-called religious
brotherhood human heads have been severed without the least compunction,
sincere outspoken men and women have been roasted and burnt alive; many
atrocities have been perpetrated which baffle description; cruel wars
have been waged which mar the pages of world history. Even in this
supposedly enlightened twentieth century the followers of one religion
hate or ruthlessly persecute and even kill those of other faiths merely
because they cannot force them to think as they do or because they have
a different label. If, on account of religious
views, people of different faiths cannot meet on a common platform like
brothers and sisters, then surely the missions of compassionate world
teachers have pitifully failed. Sweet mettà transcends
all these kinds of narrow brotherhood. It is limitless in scope and
range. Barriers it has none. Discrimination it makes not. Mettà enables
one to regard the whole world as one's motherland and all as fellow
beings. Just as the sun sheds its
rays on all without any distinction, even so sublime mettà bestows
its sweet blessings equally on the pleasant and the unpleasant, on the
rich and the poor, on the high and the low, on the vicious and the
virtuous, on man and woman, and on human and animal. Such was the boundless Mettà
of the Buddha who worked for the welfare and happiness of those who
loved Him as well as of those who hated Him and even attempted to harm
and kill Him. The Buddha exercised mettà
equally towards His own son Ràhula, His adversary Devadatta, His
attendant Ànanda, His admirers and His opponents. This loving-kindness should
be extended in equal measure towards oneself as towards friend, foe and
neutral alike. Suppose a bandit were to approach a person travelling
through a forest with an intimate friend, a neutral person and an enemy,
and suppose he were to demand that one of them be offered as a victim.
If the traveller were to say that he himself should be taken, then he
would have no mettà towards himself. If he were to say that
anyone of the other three persons should be taken, then he would have no
mettà towards them. Such is the characteristic
of real mettà. In exercising this boundless loving-kindness
oneself should not be ignored. This subtle point should not be
misunderstood, for self-sacrifice is another sweet virtue and
egolessness is yet another higher virtue. The culmination of this mettà
is the identification of oneself with all beings (sabbattatà),
making no difference between oneself and others. The so-called
"I" is lost in the whole. Separatism evaporates. Oneness is
realized. There is no proper English
equivalent for this graceful Pàli term Mettà. Goodwill,
loving-kindness, benevolence and universal love are suggested as the
best renderings. The antithesis of mettà
is anger, ill-will, hatred, or aversion. Mettà cannot
co-exist with anger or vengeful conduct. The Buddha states: "Hatreds do not
cease through hatreds: Mettà not only tends to
conquer anger but also does not tolerate hateful thoughts towards
others. He who has mettà never thinks of harming others, nor
does he disparage or condemn others. Such a person is neither afraid of
others nor does he instil fear into any. A subtle indirect enemy
assails mettà in the guise of a friend. It is selfish affection (pema),
for unguarded mettà may sometimes be assailed by lust. This
indirect enemy resembles a person who lurks afar in the jungles or hills
to cause harm to another. Grief springs from affection but not from mettà.
This delicate point should
not be misunderstood. Parents surely cannot avoid having affection
towards their children and children towards their parents; husbands
towards their wives and wives towards their husbands. Such affection is
quite natural. The world cannot exist without mutual affection. The
point to be clarified here is that unselfish mettà is not synonymous
with ordinary affection. A benevolent attitude is
the chief characteristic of inettà. He who practises mettà is
constantly interested in promoting the welfare of others. He seeks the
good and beautiful in all but not the ugliness in others. Attendant blessings of
Mettà 1) He who practises mettà
sleeps happily. As he goes to sleep with a light heart free from
hatred he naturally falls asleep at once. This fact is clearly
demonstrated by those who are full of loving-kindness. They are fast
asleep immediately on closing their eyes. 2) As he goes to sleep with
a loving heart he awakes with an equally loving heart. Benevolent and
compas-sionate persons often rise from bed with smiling faces. 3) Even in sleep loving
persons are not perturbed by bad dreams. As they are full of love during
their waking hours, they are peaceful in their sleeping hours too.
Either they fall into deep sleep or have pleasant dreams. 4) He becomes dear to human
beings. As he loves others, so do others love him. When a persons looks at a
mirror with a smiling face, a similar face will greet him. If, on the
contrary, he looks with a wry face, he will see a similar reflection.
The outside world reacts on one in the same way that one acts towards
the world. One full of faults himself is apt to see the evil in others.
The good he ignores. An English poet -- Bolton Hall -- has put it
beautifully: -- "I looked at my
brother with the Microscope of
Criticism.
Why should we see the
ugliness in others when there is evil in the best of us and good in the
worst of us? It would be a source of pleasure to all if we could see the
good and beautiful in all. 5) He who practises mettà
is dear to non-humans as well. Animals are also attracted to him.
Radiating their loving-kindness, ascetics live in wild forests amidst
ferocious beasts without being harmed by them. 6) Owing to his power of mettà
he becomes immune from poison and so forth unless he is subject to
some inexorable Kamma. As mettà is a
constructive healthy force it has the power to counteract hostile
influence. Just as hateful thoughts can produce toxic effects in the
system, even so loving thoughts can produce healthy physical effects. It
is stated that a very generous and devout woman named Suppiyà, who had
a wound in her thigh, was healed on seeing the Buddha. The peaceful
thought vibrations of the Buddha and the woman combined to produce this
salutary effect. When the Buddha visited His
birthplace for the first time, His son Ràhula, who was only seven years
of age, approached Him and spontaneously remarked: "O ascetic, even
your shadow is pleasing to me." The child was so much dominated by
the Buddha's mettà that he deeply felt its magnetic power. 7) Invisible deities
protect him because of the power of his
mettà.
8) Mettà leads
to quick mental concentration. As the mind is not perturbed by hostile
vibrations one-pointedness can be gained with ease. With mind at peace
he will live in a heaven of his own creation. Even those who come in
contact with him will also experience that bliss. 9) Mettà tends
to beautify one's facial expression. The face as a rule reflects the
state of the mind. When one gets angry, the heart pumps blood twice or
three times faster than the normal rate. Heated blood rushes up to the
face, which then turns red or black. At times the face becomes repulsive
to sight. Loving thoughts on the contrary, gladden the heart and clarify
the blood. The face then presents a lovable appearance. It is stated that when the
Buddha, after Enlightenment, reflected on the Causal Relations (Patthàna),
His heart was so pacified and His blood so clarified that rays of
different hue such as blue, yellow, red, white, orange, and a mixture of
these emanated from His body. 10) A person imbued with mettà
dies peacefully as he harbours no thoughts of hatred towards any.
Even after death his serene face reflects his peaceful death. 11) Since a person with mettà
dies happily, he will subsequently be born in a blissful state. If
he has gained the Jhànas (ecstasies), he will be born in a Brahma
realm. Power of Mettà Besides these inevitable
worldly blessings mettà possesses a magnetic power. It can
produce a good influence on others even at a distance and can attract
others to oneself. Once when the Buddha
visited a certain city, many distinguished nobles came to welcome Him,
amongst whom was a nobleman named Roja, who was a friend of
Venerable Ànanda. Seeing him, Venerable Ànanda said:
"It is very kind of you, Roja, to have come to welcome the
Buddha." "No, Venerable Sir, it
is not out of any reverence towards the Buddha that I have come to greet
Him. We agreed amongst ourselves that whoever would not go to greet the
Buddha would be fined 500 gold coins. It is through fear of the fine
that I have come here to welcome the Buddha", replied Roja. Venerable Ànanda was
slightly displeased. He approached the Buddha and implored Him to preach
the Dhamma to Roja. The Buddha instantly
radiated mettà towards Roja and retired to His chamber. Roja's body was saturated
with the mettà of the Buddha. He was electrified, so to say,
with the magnetic power of Buddha's irresistible love. Just as a calf
would run after its mother he ran from cell to cell in the monastery
inquiring where the Buddha was. The monks directed him to the Buddha's
chamber. He knocked at the door. The Buddha opened it. In he went,
saluted the Buddha, heard the doctrine, and became a convert. Such is the magnetic power
of mettà which everyone can exercise according to his ability. On another occasion an
intoxicated elephant was driven towards the Buddha in an effort to kill
Him. The Buddha calmly radiated His love towards the elephant and
subdued it. A beautiful story may be
cited to show how the Bodhisatta as a boy extended his boundless mettà
when his own father ordered him to be killed. Young though he was,
the Bodhisatta thought to himself:-- "Here is a golden
opportunity for me to practise my mettà. My father stands before
me, my good mother is weeping, the executioner is ready to chop off my
hands and feet. I, the victim, am in the centre. Love I must all the
four in equal measure without any distinction. May my good father not
incur any suffering because of this ruthless act! May I become a Buddha
in the future!" In one of his previous
births the Bodhisatta was once practising the virtue of patience in a
royal park. The king, a drunkard, meaning to test his patience, ordered
the executioner to beat him and cut off his hands and feet. Still he
practised patience. The impatient king kicked him in the chest. Lying in
a pool of blood, almost on the verge of death, the Bodhisatta blessed
the king and wished him long life saying that men like himself never get
angry. A Bhikkhu is expected to
practise mettà to such an extent that he is forbidden to dig or
cause to dig the ground lest insects and other minute creatures die. The high standard of mettà
expected from a Bhikkhu can be understood by the following
admonition of the Buddha:-- "If bandits sever your limbs with a
two-handled saw, and if you entertain hate in your heart, you will not
be a follower of my teaching." Such enduring patience is
extremely difficult. But, that is the lofty ethical standard the Buddha
expects from His followers. The Buddha Himself has set
the noble example: "As an elephant in the
battlefield withstands arrows shot from a bow," says the Buddha,
"even so will I endure abuse; verily most people are
undisciplined." (Dhammapada v. 320) This chaotic, war-weary,
restless world of today, where the nations are arming themselves to
their teeth, frightened of one another, where human life is endangered
by nuclear weapons which may be released at any moment, is sorely in
need of this universal loving-kindness so that all may live in one world
in perfect peace and harmony like brothers and sisters. Is it practically possible
to exercise mettà when one is threatened with devastating bombs
and other destructive weapons? Well, what can powerless
people do when bombs rain from above? Can they avert such a catastrophe? Buddhist mettà is
the only answer to such deadly bombs when one is faced with inexorable
death. If all warlike nations
could be prevailed upon to substitute this spiritual mettà for
the destructive weapons of materialism and rule the world not with might
and force but with right and love, then only would there be genuine
peace and happiness in this world. Leaving the almost
unpractical major issues aside, it is advisable to be concerned with
oneself and the rest of mankind in cultivating this sweet virtue of mettà
to the best of one's ability. How to Practise Mettà A few practical hints are
given below to practise this meditation on loving-kindness. Mettà
should be practised first towards oneself. In doing so a person should
charge his mind and body with positive thoughts of peace and happiness.
He should think how he could be peaceful, happy, free from suffering,
worry and anger. He then becomes the embodiment of loving-kindness. Shielded by
loving-kindness, he cuts off all hostile vibrations and negative
thoughts. He returns good for evil, love for anger. He becomes ever
tolerant and tries his best not to give occasion for anger to any.
Himself beaming with happiness, he injects happiness into others not
only inwardly but also outwardly by putting his mettà into
practice in the course of his daily life. When he is full of peace
and is free from thoughts of hatred, it is easy for him to radiate
loving-kindness towards others. What he does not possess he cannot give
to others. Before he tries to make others happy he should first be happy
himself. He should know the ways and means to make himself happy. He now radiates his
loving-kindness towards all his near and dear ones individually and
collectively, wishing them peace and happiness and freedom from
suffering, disease, worry and anger. Diffusing his thoughts of
loving-kindness towards his relatives and friends, he radiates them also
towards neutrals. Just as he wishes for the peace and happiness of
himself and of his near and dear ones, even so he sincerely wishes for
the peace and happiness of those who are neutral to him, wishing them
freedom from suffering, disease, worry and anger. Finally, though this
is somewhat difficult, he should radiate his mettà in the same
way towards those (if any) who are inimical to him. If, by practising mettà,
he could adopt a friendly attitude towards those thought to be
inimical towards him, his achievement would be more heroic and
commendable. As the Buddha advises --"Amidst those who hate let him
live free from hatred." Starting from himself he
should gradually extend his mettà towards all beings,
irrespective of creed, race, colour, or sex, including dumb animals,
until he has identified himself with all, making no distinction
whatever. He merges himself in the whole universe and is one with all.
He is no more dominated by egoistic feelings. He transcends all forms of
separatism. No longer confining himself to water-tight compartments, no
longer influenced by caste, class, national, racial, or religious
prejudices, he can regard the whole world as his motherland and all as
fellow beings in the ocean of life. 2. KARUNÀ The second virtue that
sublimes man is compassion (karunà). It is defined as that which
makes the hearts of the good quiver when others are subject to
suffering, or that which dissipates the sufferings of others. Its chief
characteristic is the wish to remove the woes of others. The hearts of compassionate
persons are even softer than flowers. They do not and cannot rest
satisfied until they relieve the sufferings of others. At times they
even go to the extent of sacrificing their lives so as to alleviate the
sufferings of others. The story of the Vyàghri Jàtaka where the
Bodhisatta sacrificed his life to save a starving tigress and her cubs
may be cited as an example. It is compassion that
compels one to serve others with altruistic motives. A truly
compassionate person lives not for himself but for others. He seeks
opportunities to serve others expecting nothing in return, not even
gratitude. Who needs compassion? Many amidst us deserve our
compassion. The poor and the needy, the sick and the helpless, the
lonely and the destitute, the ignorant and the vicious, the impure and
the undisciplined are some that demand the compassion of kind-hearted,
noble-minded men and women, to whatever religion or to whatever race
they belong. Some countries are
materially rich but spiritually poor, while some others are spiritually
rich but materially poor. Both these pathetic conditions have to be
taken into consideration by the materially rich and the spiritually
rich. It is the paramount duty of
the wealthy to come to the succour of the poor, who unfortunately lack
most of the necessaries of life. Surely those who have in abundance can
give to the poor and the needy their surplus without inconveniencing
themselves. Once a young student
removed the door curtain in his house and gave it to a poor person
telling his good mother that the door does not feel the cold but the
poor certainly do. Such a kindhearted attitude in young men and women is
highly commendable. It is gratifying to note
that some wealthy countries have formed themselves into various
philanthropic bodies to help under-developed countries, especially in
Asia, in every possible way. Charitable organizations have also been
established in all countries by men, women and students to give every
possible assistance to the poor and the needy. Religious bodies also
perform their respective duties in this connection in their own humble
way. Homes for the Aged, Orphanages and other similar charitable
institutions are needed in under-developed countries. The beggar problem has
still to be solved in some countries where begging has become a
profession. Out of compassion for the unfortunate beggars this problem
has to be solved satisfactorily by the respective Governments as the
existence of beggars is an insult to any self-respecting nation. As the materially rich
should have compassion on the materially poor and try to elevate them,
it is the duty of the spiritually rich, too, to have compassion on the
spiritually poor and sublime them though they may be materially rich.
Wealth alone cannot give genuine happiness. Peace of mind can be gained
not by material treasures but by spiritual treasures. Many in this world
are badly in need of substantial spiritual food, which is not
easily obtained, as the spiritually poor far exceed the materially poor
numerically, as they are found both amongst the rich and the poor. Even more than poverty
sickness prevails throughout the world. Many are physically sick, some
are mentally sick. Science provides effective medicine for the former
but not for the latter, who very often languish in mental hospitals. There are causes for these
two kinds of diseases. Compassionate men and women must try to remove
the causes if they wish to produce an effective cure. Effective measures have
been employed by various nations to prevent and cure diseases not only
of mankind but also of animals. The Buddha set a noble example by
attending on the sick Himself and exhorting His disciples with the
memorable words: "He who ministers unto
the sick ministers unto me."
Some selfless doctors
render free services towards the alleviation of suffering. Some expend
their whole time and energy in ministering to the poor patients even at
the risk of their lives. Hospitals and free
dispensaries have become a blessing to humanity but more are needed so
that the poor may benefit by them. In underdeveloped countries the poor
suffer through lack of medical facilities. The sick have to be carried
for miles with great inconvenience to the nearest hospital or dispensary
for medical treatment. Sometimes they die on the way. Pregnant mothers
suffer most. Hospitals, dispensaries, maternity homes, etc. are
essential needs in backward village areas. The lowly and the destitute
deserve the compassion of wealthy men and women. Sometimes servants and
workers are not well paid, well fed, well clothed and more often than
not they are ill treated. Justice is not meted out to them. They are
neglected and are powerless as there is nobody to plead for them.
Glaring cases of inhuman cruelty receive publicity in some exceptional
cases. Many such cases are not known. These unfortunate ones have no
other alternative but to suffer meekly even as Mother Earth suffers
everything in silence. When the grief is unbearable, they commit suicide
in utter desperation. The vicious, the wicked,
and the ignorant deserve compassion even, more than those who suffer
physically as they are mentally and spiritually sick. They should not be
condemned and despised but sympathised with for their failings and
defects. Though a mother has equal compassion towards all her children
still she may have more compassion towards a sick child. Even so,
greater compassion should be exercised towards the spiritually sick as
their sickness ruins their character. The Buddha, for instance,
had great compassion towards the courtesan Ambapàli, and towards
Angulimàla the murderer. Both of them later became His converts and
underwent a complete reformation in character. We must understand that
greatness is latent in all however wicked they may be. Perhaps one
appropriate word at the right moment may change the whole outlook of a
person. The Emperor Asoka
perpetrated many crimes, so much so that he was stigmatized Asoka the
Wicked. Later the words from a young novice -- "Diligence is the
path to the deathless" -- produced such a great change in him that
he became Asoka the Righteous (Dharmàsoka).
The Buddha's advice is to
shun the company of the foolish. That does not mean that the good should
not associate with them so as to reform them. People avoid those who
suffer from contagious diseases. But compass-sionate physicians, attend
on them so as to heal them. Otherwise they might die. In the same way
the wicked may die spiritually if the good are not tolerant and
compassionate towards them. As a rule the Buddha went
in search of the poor, the ignorant and the vicious, but the good and
the virtuous came in search of the Buddha. Like mettà (loving-kindness),
karunà (compassion) should also be extended without limit
towards all suffering and helpless beings, including dumb animals and
fertile eggs. To deny the rights and
privileges of mankind on account of caste, colour, or race is inhuman
and cruel. To feast on the flesh of animals by killing or causing them
to be killed is not human compassion. To rain bombs from above and
ruthlessly destroy millions of men, women and children is the worst form
of cruelty that deluded man has ever perpetrated. Today this pitiless,
vengeful world has sacrificed the most precious thing on earth -- life
-- at the altar of brute force. Whither has compassion fled? The world needs today
compassionate men and women to banish violence and cruelty from the face
of the earth. Buddhist compassion, it
should be noted, does not consist in mere shedding of tears and
the like, for the indirect enemy of compassion is passionate grief (domanassa).
Compassion embraces all
sorrow-stricken beings, while loving-kindness embraces all living
beings, happy or sorrowful. 3. MUDITÀ The third sublime virtue is
mudità. It is not mere sympathy but sympathetic or appreciative
joy which tends to destroy jealousy, its direct enemy. One devastating force that
endangers our whole constitution is jealousy. Very often some cannot
bear to see or hear the successful achievements of others. They rejoice
over their failures but cannot tolerate their successes. Instead of
praising and congratulating the successful, they try to ruin, condemn
and vilify them. In one way mudità is concerned more with
oneself than with others as it tends to eradicate jealousy which ruins
oneself. On the other hand it aids others as well since one who
practises mudità will not try to hinder the progress and welfare
of others. It is quite easy to rejoice
over the success of one's near and dear ones, but rather difficult to do
so over the success of one's adversaries. Yes, the majority not only
find it difficult but also do not and cannot rejoice. They seek delight
in creating every possible obstacle so as to ruin their adversaries.
They even go to the extent of poisoning, crucifying, and assassinating
the good and the virtuous. Socrates was poisoned,
Christ was crucified, Gandhi was shot. Such is the nature of the wicked
and deluded world. The practice of mettà and
karunà is easier than the practice of mudità which demands
great personal effort and strong will-power. Do the Western nations
rejoice over the prosperity of the Eastern and the Eastern over the
prosperity of the Weostern? Does one nation rejoice over the welfare of
another nation? Is one race happy over the growing prosperity of another
race? Does even one religious sect, which stands for the cultivation of
morals, rejoice over the spiritual influence of another sect? One religion is jealous of
another religion, one part of the globe is jealous of another part of
the globe, one institution is jealous of another institution, one
business firm is jealous of another business firm, one family is jealous
of another family, unsuccessful pupils are jealous of successful pupils,
sometimes even one brother or sister is jealous of another brother or
sister. This is the very reason why
individuals and groups should practise appreciative joy if they wish to
sublime themselves and be internally happy. The chief characteristic of
mudità is happy acquiescence in others’ prosperity and success
(anumodanà). Laughter and the like are not the
characteristics of mudità as exhilaration (pahasa) is
regarded as its indirect enemy. Mudità
embraces all prosperous beings and is the congratulatory attitude of
a person. It tends to eliminate any dislike (arati) towards a
successful person. 4. UPEKKHÀ The fourth sublime state is
the most difficult and the most essential. It is upekkhà or
equanimity. The etymo-logical meaning of the term upekkhà is
"discerning rightly," "viewing justly" or
"looking impartially," that is, without attachment or
aversion, without favour or disfavour. (See pp. 523-524 and 596-597). Equanimity is necessary
especially for laymen who have to live in an ill-balanced world amidst
fluctuating circumstances. Slights and insults are the
common lot of mankind. The world is so constituted that the good and the
virtuous are often subject to unjust criticism and attack. It is heroic
to maintain a balanced mind in such circumstances. Loss and gain, fame and
infamy, praise and blame, pain and happiness are eight worldly
conditions (atthalokadhamma: gain and loss, fame and defame, praise and
blame, happiness and pain) that affect all humanity. Most people are
perturbed when affected by such favourable or unfavourable states. One
is elated when one is praised, and depressed when blamed and reviled. He
is wise, says the Buddha, who, amidst such vicissitudes of life, stands
unmoved like unto a firm rock, exercising perfect equanimity. The Buddha's exemplary life
offers us worldlings an excellent example of equanimity. There was no religious
teacher in the world who was so severely criticised, attacked, insulted
and reviled as the Buddha, and yet none so highly praised, honoured and
revered as the Buddha. Once when He went in quest
of alms, He was called an outcast by an impertinent brahmin. He calmly
endured the insult and explained to him that it is not birth that makes
one an outcast but an ignoble character. The brahmin was converted. Inviting him to a house for
alms, a certain man entertained the Buddha with the filthiest language,
current in His time. He was called 'swine', 'brute', ‘ox', etc. But He
was not offended. He did not retaliate. Calmly He questioned His host
what he would do when guests visited his house. He replied that he would
prepare a feast to entertain them. "Well, what would you
do if they did not partake of it?" questioned the Buddha. "In that case we
ourselves would partake of the feast." "Well, good brother,
you have invited me to your house for alms. You have entertained me with
a torrent of abuse. I do not accept it. Please take it back,"
calmly replied the Buddha. The offender's character
was completely transformed. "Retaliate not. Be
silent as a cracked gong when you are abused by others. If you do so, I
deem that you have already attained Nibbàna although you have not
realized Nibbàna." (Dhammapada
v. 124) Such is the advice of the
Buddha. These are golden words that
should be given heed to in this ill-disciplined world of today. Once a lady of the court
induced some drunkards to revile the Buddha so much that Venerable
Ànanda, His attendant disciple, implored the Buddha to leave the city
and go elsewhere. But the Buddha was unperturbed. Another woman feigned
pregnancy and publicly accused the Buddha of having placed her in that
condition. A woman was killed by His rivals and the Buddha was accused
of murder. His own cousin and disciple Devadatta made an unsuccessful
attempt to crush Him to death by hurling a rock from a cliff. Some of
His own disciples accused Him of jealousy, partiality, favouritism, etc. On the other hand
many sang the praises of the Buddha. Kings prostrated themselves before
His feet and paid the highest reverence. Like the Mother Earth the
Buddha suffered everything in silence with perfect equanimity. Like a lion that does not
tremble at every sound, one should not be perturbed by the poisoned
darts of uncurbed tongues. Like the wind that does not cling to the
meshes of a net, one should not be attached to the illusory pleasures of
this changing world. Like the lotus that is unsoiled by the mud from
which it springs, one should live unaffected by worldly temptations,
ever calm, serene and peaceful. As with the first three
virtues so also upekkhà has for its direct enemy attachment (ràga)
and for its indirect enemy callousness or unintelligent indifference. Upekkhà
discards clinging and aversion. An impartial attitude is its chief
characteristic. He who practises equanimity is neither attracted by
desirable objects nor is averse to undesirable objects. His attitude towards the
sinner and saint will be the same, for he makes no distinction. * * * Mettà embraces
all beings, karunà embraces sufferers, mudità embraces
the prosperous, and upekkhà embraces the good and the bad, the
loved and the unloved, the pleasant and the unpleasant.
He who wishes to be divine
in this life itself may daily cultivate these four sublime
virtues which are dormant in all. He who wishes to perfect
himself and compassionately work for the welfare of all beings in the
course of his countless births in Samsàra may strenuously
develop the ten Perfections (Pàramì) and ultimately become a Sammà
Sambuddha, a Supremely Enlightened One. He who wishes to eradicate
his passions and put an end to suffering by realizing Nibbàna at the
earliest possible opportunity may diligently follow the unique Noble
Eightfold Path which still exists in its pristine purity. The Buddha exhorts: "Suppose, O monks,
this mighty earth were one mass of water and a man were to throw down
thereon a yoke with one hole. Then comes a wind from the east and wafts
it west, and a wind from the west wafts it east; a north wind wafts it
south, and a south wind wafts it north. Then once at the end of a
hundred years a blind turtle push his neck through that yoke with one
hole whenever he popped up to the surface at the end of a hundred years? "It is unlikely, lord,
that the blind turtle would do that. "It is just as
unlikely, O monks, that one will get birth in human form; just as
unlikely that a Tathàgata should arise in the world, an Arahant, a
Fully Enlightened One; just as unlikely that the Norm (Dhamma) and
Discipline (Vinaya) proclaimed by a Tathàgata should be shown in
the world. "But now indeed, O
monks, this state of human birth is won, and a Tathàgata has arisen in
the world, and the Norm and Discipline proclaimed by the Tathàgata is
shown in the world. "Wherefore, O monks,
ye must make an effort to realize: This is ill, this is the cause of
ill, this is the cessation of ill, this is the way leading to the
cessation of ill." (Kindred Sayings, v. p. 334) -ooOoo- Chân thành cám ơn Bác
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THE SUBLIME STATES
Hard is the life of mortals."
"Do not let slip this opportunity." (Dhammapada)
through love alone they
cease." (Dhammapada, v. 5)
And I said ‘How coarse my brother is!’
I looked at him through the Telescope of Scorn
And I said, ‘How small my brother is!’
Then I looked in the Mirror of Truth
And I said, ‘How like me my brother is!’ "
updated: 09-05-2002